Ladies Only 10 ways to know if he’s really serious about you

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She thinks they’re BF-GF, and he thinks they’re just
“friends”… with a really loose definition of what a friend
is. Here’s a way to make it happen less, a way to tell if
the guy is serious about you.
One of the seemingly most common trip-ups in dating
is that the two people in the so-called relationship have
differing opinions about what kind of relationship
they’re in.
Invariably, someone’s feelings get hurt because
expectations are different from what is actually being
delivered.
She thinks they’re BF-GF, and he thinks they’re just
“friends”… with a really loose definition of what a friend
is. This happens a lot. Here’s a way to make it happen
less, a way to tell if the guy is serious about you:
1. He holds your hand in public: A public display of
affection in this way is a sweet way to connect you
two. Holding hands is actually more of a
commitment than, say, kissing because a kiss can
be driven by other needs. A kiss doesn’t “claim” you.
2. He’s usually where he says he’s going to be: This is
easy. He’s not hiding from you.
3. He introduces you to his friends (and family)… and
they already know about you: He’s not keeping you
hidden. That he’s been talking about you is a sign
that you matter.
4. You have a title (My Girlfriend, Lady, Woman…):
This is an important one. If you’re just Lola (or
whatever your name is), then who are you? What
do you represent? If you don’t have a title then your
relationship is a different one than you think it is.
5. He doesn’t just come over late and leave early:
Again, another easy one. If his visits are primarily
booty calls, that’s a problem.
6. His Saturday night belongs to you: Saturday night
is date night for people in a relationsip. If he’s not
with you, where is he?
7. You have more than just his phone number: He who
has nothing to hide, hides nothing. You should have
all his numbers…home, mobile, work, and whatever
else he has.
8. You spend time at his place… including overnight:
If you’re not spending the night there, who is?
9. If he has a landline at home, he answers it when it
rings while you’re there: Again, nothing to hide,
right? No concerns about another “chick with
expectations” calling.
0. He calls you more than he texts: If this isn’t
happening, he’s just having fun with you.
Of course, this is not a fool-proof list, but if most of
these things aren’t happening, you’re probably NOT his
girlfriend.

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