10 signs you’ve finally found ‘The One’

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Here are 9 signs to help you identify that he’s The One.
You don’t need to tick them all off, but if you don’t
recognise any of these, you probably want to re-assess.
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With friends and relatives getting married here and
there, you may start thinking about your own
relationship and whether it’ll ever be you walking down
that aisle.
It’s indeed something worth wondering about. Here are
nine signs to help you identify that he’s The One.
You don’t need to tick them all off, but if you don’t
recognise any of these, you probably want to re-assess.
1. You can’t imagine life without him: No matter what
life throws at you, where you go, or jobs you take,
you know that you’ll want to do it with him by your
side.
2. You have fun hanging out together: He’s not just
your lover, he makes you laugh like no other. He’s
the one person you just have to tell. Exciting news,
or a story to share, we all have someone who is our
default option. In a great relationship, this is him.
This doesn’t mean to the exclusion of all others,
just that he’s top of the list.
3. Silence is not terrifying: Sometimes it is nice to be
peaceful; together. You know when you’re in the
right relationship when you can spend a multi hour
journey together and there is no pressure to be
filling every silence with words.
4. You feel totally yourself around him: You realise one
day that you feel completely comfortable around
him. Not just no make up and leaving the bathroom
door open, but that you don’t have to hide your
feelings or thoughts.
5. You still fancy him as much as the day you met
him: And you don’t think about your ex. Or any of
your exes.
6. In return, he supports and encourages you to be the
best you can: And he allows you to be an individual
within the relationship. There’s no dependency from
either of you, only support.
7. Your sexual expectations match: Everyone is
different and every relationship goes through natural
ebbs and flows, but the match that is a keeper is
where sexual needs are balanced.
8. You can talk about (and then work out) any issue:
No topic can be off limits. You don’t always have to
agree, but you do have to be able to raise
something without judgement or fear. When you can
do this and reach an amicable solution, you know
you’re in the right relationship.
9. You want to support his interests and want him to
succeed: You don’t have to do it (or watch it)
yourself to be supportive. When you genuinely want
him to spend time pursuing his interests, you know
that you’re compatible.

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