[MUST READ] Are You in an Unhealthy Relationship?

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Do you feel like you are in a wrong relationship?
Both women and men stay in unhealthy
relationships without realizing it. However,
women are more likely to stay in a wrong
relationship. Women are weaker and often
abused by their partners. You don’t feel like an
equal partner and you are not allowed to do
anything without his permission. You feel stuck
in your life and happiness is something
unreachable to you. I think I can help you. We
all want well-adjusted and healthy relationships,
right? So, let’s explore some of the most
obvious signs of an unhealthy relationship so
that you can know if you’re in one.
1. You don’t trust each other
Do you trust your man when he goes out by
himself? Do you read his emails each day? This
is not a healthy relationship, ladies, it’s actually
an unhealthy one. If your partner is a control
freak, though, don’t expect him to change.
Dealing with a control freak is emotionally
draining and simply a waste of time.
2. You take each other for granted
If you and your partner take each other for
granted, it means you don’t love each other
anymore. Let’s be honest. Do you assume that
your boyfriend is going to stay with you? Or do
you assume that your boyfriend is going to pack
your lunch daily? These little things can ruin
your relationship in time.
3. Constant fighting
Constant fighting is one of the clearest signs
you are in a wrong relationship. Sure, every
relationship has its bumps (especially if you and
your partner share the same room), but if you
are constantly fighting over the smallest things,
that may not be a good relationship to be in.
Keep in mind that the good times should always
outweigh the bad ones.
4. Constant insults
Does your boyfriend put you down? If you feel
like you have to be on the defense all the time,
you are definitely in an unhealthy relationship.
Your partner should make you feel beautiful and
he should never hurt you no matter what.
Staying in an emotionally abusive relationship
destroys your self-worth and leads to serious
disease, including heart disease.
5. Omissions of truth
Can you openly talk to your boyfriend? If not,
this is another sign of an unhealthy relationship.
While you don’t necessarily have to tell your
significant other everything you think or feel, you
should be pretty open with him. Trust is the key
to a healthy relationship. If your partner laughs
at your feelings and needs, and makes you hide
your emotions, it’s time to say goodbye to him.
6. Constant blaming
Do you blame your partner for your failures? Or,
is he the one who blames you for everything
that isn’t right in his life? This is a warning sign
you are in an unhealthy relationship. We are not
perfect and no one is responsible for your
mistakes. When two people love each other,
there’s no room for blaming.
7. Lack of communication
How often do you communicate with each other?
You two can have busy schedules but it’s not a
reason to stop talking to each other. That’s not
a relationship, ladies. Effective communication is
an essential part of any relationship. It helps
your relationship grow strong and stay strong,
and avoid a lot of misunderstandings.
8. Social isolation
If you completely isolate yourself from your
friends and even your family, you might be in an
unhealthy relationship. You need your family
and friends to survive. You also need other
opinions besides your boyfriend’s. So, if your
partner expects you to spend all your time only
with him and he gets angry when you speak to
your parents or friends, it’s a warning sign.
Being in a wrong relationship is literally the end
of the world. You kill your self-esteem, destroy
your identity, lose many important people in
your life and ruin your overall health. You
deserve to be happy and so does your partner.
What other signs of an unhealthy relationship
have you noticed? Have you ever been in a
wrong relationship?

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